The message is not really true. When one declines, the other person can notice that the contact request is not pending any more. They will know. Switching to not alerted is closer to what is really happening.
@@ -48,7 +48,7 @@ impl View for ContactNotification {
ContactEventKind::Requested => render_user_notification(
self.user.clone(),
"wants to add you as a contact",
- Some("They won't know if you decline."),
+ Some("They won't be alerted if you decline."),
Dismiss(self.user.id),
vec![
(